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Welcome!

I'm Hida (pronounced "Heeda"), one of the first publicly intersex, non-binary and gender-fluid people on this beautiful planet.

This site shares my writing and my work creating mainstream awareness, and advocating for human rights, about and for my communities.

Intersex
referring to or being a person whose internal and/or external sexual and reproductive organs are not typically male or female

Non-binary
relating to or being a person who identifies with or expresses a gender identity that is neither entirely male nor entirely female

Gender-fluid
of, relating to, or being a person whose gender identity is not fixed

The Spectrum of Sex:
The Science of Male, Female and Intersex

Born Both:
An Intersex Life

This reel highlights some of my best television interviews. (3:44 minute)

BORN BOTH one of Harper’s ten memoirs to be inspired by!

By Hida | January 27, 2022 |

Wha an AWESOME surprise to find my memoir BORN BOTH: AN INTERSEX LIFE, on Harper’s Bazaar UK’s list of “10 memoirs and autobiographies to be inspired by“–alongside Maya Angelou, Michelle Obama, Gkoria Steinem, and others! Huge thanks to Harper’s for reading and including a queer, Latine, intersex, non-binary voice on this list–what an honor! https://www.harpersbazaar.com/uk/culture/entertainment/g37950787/memoirs-autobiographies/

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New Blog Essay on Cisgender

By Hida | August 18, 2014

http://intersexandout.tumblr.com/post/95130298770/caught-in-the-gender-binary-blind-spot-intersex “Finally, everything I’ve been saying about cisgender — and how it reinforces the gender binary — in one LONG (yes, warning, it’s dense) essay.…

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Caught in the Gender Binary Blind Spot: Intersex Erasure in Cisgender Rhetoric

By Hida | August 18, 2014

Earlier this month, two intersex blog posts about the term “cisgender” reminded me that it’s high time we talk about how current cisgender rhetoric facilitates…

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Presenting at GA14, the 13th Annual Genital Autonomy Symposium

By Hida | July 22, 2014

    I’m thrilled to present at this fantastic event, and honored to join with fellow pioneers in the fight for bodily intergrity and an…

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The Gender that Dare Not Speak its Name

By Hida | July 3, 2014

One of the icons of the queer community once said, “Consistency is the last refuge of the unimaginative.” I’m talking about the Western world’s first…

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The Importance of Allies

By Hida | June 19, 2014

So I went to a baseball game for the first time in about 35 years yesterday, because the person who invited me is so cool…

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Just another frivolous, glittery gender observation

By Hida | June 12, 2014

Given my newfound commitment to weekly Wednesday blogging , not every blog will be a well thought out exploration of topics deeply intergral to being…

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The Third Sex: Then, Now, Never

By Hida | June 5, 2014

I’ll never forget seeing the cover of a 1950’s lesbian novel called The Third Sex. It’d been made into a postcard, and was on sale…

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Who do you think you are: intersex and appropriation

By Hida | May 29, 2014

I was recently interviewed by the awesome Vash Boddie of IMRU radio in L.A., the county’s longest running LGBTI radio station (airdate T.B.A.). At one…

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How Now Pro Noun?  

By Hida | May 21, 2014

Nowadays, the preferred-gender-pronoun question comes up quickly when I speak about being intersex. I see it as a positive indication that we’re moving beyond Intersex…

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Advocating Equality

By Hida | May 14, 2014

Hi everyone! I thought I’d apologize for and share that the reason it’s taken me SO long to write something new is that my mom…

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What’s in a Name: Intersex and Identity

By Hida | May 13, 2014

In 1987, I was outed to my parents by my older brother in a scene straight out of the hysterical queer comedy But I’m a…

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Intersex: Beyond the Binary, at Vassar 3/26

By Hida | March 25, 2014

Very excited to about this — Vassar students & staff are cutting edge, so this should be a good one! Wednesday, March 26, 5:30-7pm, Rocky 200.…

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Quoted in Digital Journal article about my panel at the UN

By Hida | December 18, 2013

    So happy to see the groundbreaking panel Sports Comes Out Against Homophobia, that I’m honored to have participated in at the United Nations…

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Speaking at the UN for Human Rights Day!

By Hida | December 9, 2013

    I am deeply honored to be presenting at the United Nations in New York in recognition of Human Rights Day, Dec. 10th, along…

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Keynote speaker at Bay Area Birth Justice Fair

By Hida | November 2, 2013

    http://bayareabirthjusticefair.wordpress.com/2013/11/02/fall-2013-forum-key-note-speaker-hida-viloria/ Very happy to be presenting at this event for parents which deals specifically with the issue of children’s right to physical integrity. …

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Why Intersex Germans Aren’t Crazy About Germany’s Third Gender Law

By Hida | November 1, 2013

Germany’s new third gender law becomes effective today, and has been hailed as a groundbreaking advancement for intersex people, but every intersex advocacy organization in…

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Happy Intersex Awareness Day everyone!!!!

By Hida | October 26, 2013

Please help spread awareness by sharing the info in this link with at least one person in your life. 🙂 https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=644596792238810&set=a.355696581128834.86699.189133101118517&type=1&theater

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Intersex Awareness Day event today at N.Y.U.!

By Hida | October 24, 2013

    I’ll be presenting, “Intersexphobia: What It Is and What We Can Do To End It,” today at NYU, with my colleague Claudia Astorino.…

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Intersex Awareness Day Presentation at UC Davis!

By Hida | October 20, 2013

    So happy to be invited to the University of California at Davis (UC Davis) once again to educate about intersex people and our…

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Cosmetic Genital Surgery/Sex Re-assignment of Intersex Babies is wrong: Case Closed

By Hida | September 20, 2013

(FINALLY, a new blog post! 🙂 ) A few weeks ago, I testified as an expert witness on the television show Caso Cerrado (translation: Case…

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