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Welcome!

I'm Hida (pronounced "Heeda"), one of the first publicly intersex, non-binary and gender-fluid people on this beautiful planet.

This site shares my writing and my work creating mainstream awareness, and advocating for human rights, about and for my communities.

Intersex
referring to or being a person whose internal and/or external sexual and reproductive organs are not typically male or female

Non-binary
relating to or being a person who identifies with or expresses a gender identity that is neither entirely male nor entirely female

Gender-fluid
of, relating to, or being a person whose gender identity is not fixed

The Spectrum of Sex:
The Science of Male, Female and Intersex

Born Both:
An Intersex Life

This reel highlights some of my best television interviews. (3:44 minute)

BORN BOTH one of Harper’s ten memoirs to be inspired by!

By Hida | January 27, 2022 |

Wha an AWESOME surprise to find my memoir BORN BOTH: AN INTERSEX LIFE, on Harper’s Bazaar UK’s list of “10 memoirs and autobiographies to be inspired by“–alongside Maya Angelou, Michelle Obama, Gkoria Steinem, and others! Huge thanks to Harper’s for reading and including a queer, Latine, intersex, non-binary voice on this list–what an honor! https://www.harpersbazaar.com/uk/culture/entertainment/g37950787/memoirs-autobiographies/

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Happy Herm New Year’s to All!

By Hida | December 31, 2016

Feeling so grateful for the support I’ve gotten with my memoir Born Both this past year! From all the folk at my publisher Hachette Book Groups,…

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Quoted in National Geographic

By Hida | December 31, 2016

Lots of times people don’t remedy situations when unfortunate mistakes are made, but National Geographic magazine did,  and I’m so happy about it!  In this…

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Together We Fixed It: Nat’l Geographic Corrected Intersex Definition!

By Hida | December 19, 2016

I was touched to see and hear that so many people contacted National Geographic on behalf of the intersex community in response to the sad…

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Pls Tell Nat’l Geo. To Stop Calling Intersex a Disorder

By Hida | December 17, 2016

FOR ALL INTERSEX PEEPS, OUR FAMILIES & ALLIES: I recently learned that National Geographic Magazine (@natgeo) plans to use hurtful, pathologizing language to describe intersex…

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Love & Acceptance IS Possible (Derr!)

By Hida | December 13, 2016

Since I came out as an intact intersex person, people have speculated as to how hard it must have been for me as a child.…

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Happy Human Rights Day Everyone!

By Hida | December 10, 2016

It’s hard to believe it’s been three years today since I spoke at the UN: one of the most fulfilling, moving moments of my life.…

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US Govt Advised to Recognize Intersex & Non-binary People!

By Hida | November 23, 2016

I couldn’t be happier about this victorious ruling, or prouder to call Dana Zzyym, the plaintiff in the case, my friend! In case you missed…

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Short Intvw on UN Radio’s UN Gender Focus

By Hida | November 11, 2016

  It’s hard to encapsulate complex intersex human rights issues and one’s life experience and gender identity in 2 minutes, but I’m very grateful to…

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Honoring the Intersex Day of Remembrance

By Hida | November 8, 2016

The Intersex Day of Remembrance, also known as Intersex Solidarity Day, is observed on November 8th, the birthday of Herculine Barbin. As the observance’s founder Gina…

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Quoted in UN’s Intersex Awareness Campaign!

By Hida | October 26, 2016

I’m deeply grateful to the folks at the UN’s Free & Equal Campaign for continuing to work towards ending discrimination against intersex people–today with the…

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The Intersex Awareness Day 2016 Did You Know? List

By Hida | October 26, 2016

Today is #IntersexAwarenessDay, celebrated in honor of the first known intersex protest, held at a medical clinic in Boston exactly twenty years ago, on October…

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Quoted in Huff Post article “Intersex ED at the UN”

By Hida | October 24, 2016

I’m honored to be quoted in the fantastic essay, “Intersex ED at the UN”, published in light of the upcoming #intersexAwarenessDay —  just 2 days away!  It explains…

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Presenting @ World Sexual Health Day 2016 at Stanford!

By Hida | September 27, 2016

Excited to be back in the Bay to present at World Sexual Health Day 2016, “Elminating the Myths”, co-hosted Weiland Health Initiative at Stanford University! https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/world-sexual-health-day-palo-alto-sara-nasserzadeh-msc-phd…

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Bisexuals are Badass: Intersectionality Between Intersex, Bi and GNC Communities

By Hida | September 20, 2016

Yesterday kicked off Bisexual Awareness Week, and it made me ruminate on how far I’ve come since I penned the poem, “Bye Bi Curious”. It…

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Quoted in California mag on Intersex Women in Sports

By Hida | August 15, 2016

  Proud to be quoted in my alma mater’s mag, California, on discrimination against intersex women athletes — especially since it’s been pissing me off to…

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Born Both available for pre-order!

By Hida | July 28, 2016

Seeing my memoir Born Both available for pre-order on Amazon =  one of the most satisfying moments I have ever had. GIGANTIC thanks to all…

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Happy Pride Everyone!

By Hida | June 26, 2016

Stay safe, stay strong, and most of all, stay proud of the brilliance and beauty that is you. 🙂

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Love & Prayers to Orlando & Everyone…

By Hida | June 13, 2016

https://www.facebook.com/hida.viloria/posts/1077251042313658

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Presenting to Stanford Graduate Students

By Hida | June 5, 2016

    Excited to be presenting once again this year on intersex issues to Stanford University graduate students attending the Gender & Sexualities Field Trip…

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Long Live Grace: Happy Birthday & Thanks to a Genderqueer Pioneer!

By Hida | May 19, 2016

“The future is no sex.” — Grace Jones Countless people, including myself, have been deeply saddened by the loss of icons David Bowie and Prince…

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